It is me again....I have looked to find the place to reverse the way the post are read. Ex. Instead of the newest reply first, just the opposite is what I want...thanks.
The default order should be the way you want it. The newest reply should be the last one shown, but if it's not that way, just do this:
Click on your "user cp" and go to edit options on the left side, then choose linear oldest first.
That should fix you up!