The aide situation is one of the reasons I left the nursing home. Our unit had 40 patients. Most of the time on the 3 to 11 shift we had 3 aides. They were great at patient care but didn't really understand the meaning of it or have any compassion. They knew that they had to feed and bathe the patients but if someone had to go to the bathroom an additional time then they would get ticked. That was just one example. They were also always fighting amongst themselves. This one couldn't/wouldn't work with this one or that one. They would want me to help with this or that. If I had time I would have loved to but my patients were very demanding and had a lot of medical stuff going on. Lots of diabetics and g-tubes.
I also worked in acute care for elders at night (11 to 7). I loved my aide there. She was compassionate but totally overworked. It seems like that is what they do to the good ones. We had 40 beds, 3 or 4 nurses and that one tech. She busted her butt and did a great job. I don't think anyone really acknowledged it either. They were always quick to point fingers if she didn't put extra wash clothes in so and so's room even though we had a code and someone vomiting all night. I guess it is dog eat dog with the techs sometimes too.