I also worked in an ER while going to school, and I have been told that I am a perfectionist. I think maybe its OCD- lol. I think sometimes that we get caught up in classes, tests, and working and trying to make up to our families for the time that we are gone and we forget our own "ME" time. My friend and I have made it a must that once a month we go out to eat or to a movie. I call it our "INTERVENTION" and as lame as it may sound, it is nice to have a little "ME" time!!!