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bwv244
hppyg8tful:
Thank you so much for your thoughtful and understanding response. The compassion in your post really lifted my spirits up.
Yes, an internship sounds like a wonderful idea. I was actually offered one by one of the clinical sites I had when I was a student. But this was at a children's hospital, and I turned it down because I wasn't sure that specializing in neonates/peds right away was a good idea - I was more interested in establishing a strong foundation in basic patient care first. But after reading of your internship experience, I will definitely investigate it further.
And thank you also for tips on handling my termination with future prospective employers. I am spending Thanksgiving visiting my best friend, but in December I have a bunch of professional development seminars and classes (which include time management) scheduled. Then I will look for another job in earnest at the start of January, focusing on hospitals offering internships.
peekabooicu:
Thank you for the words of encouragement. It is good to know that not just new grads have difficulty with time management. After my experience with my first job, I will certainly not even consider per diem/PRN job postings for the time being.
Ricu:
Thank you for your support in your latest post. I was deliberately sketchy in my original post because I knew that, being the fired party, I would automatically have a credibility issue and did not want to come across as the "former disgruntled employee." So I greatly appreciated your "you shouldn't have been short-changed in your orientation" comment to me. When I was dismissed, I did almost try to diplomatically bring up what I thought was the unfairness of the situation, but then refrained. The point was: they didn't want me. And as I mentioned earlier, I was quite speechless, so just meekly surrendered over my ID badge and keys and tried to leave the hospital with as much dignity as I could muster. At least I know I did my best and got "raves" (according to my supervisors) from the patients under my care. And I got along very well with my co-workers. For the time being, I will use my old professors and clinical instructors as references. I did very well at nursing school, and I know they will attest to my good character and strong work ethic.
Thank you again, all, for the helpful and supportive responses. I will not let this setback stop me in my career. What prompted me in becoming a nurse was my mother who was also a nurse. I have always considered it a very noble profession; and after my mother died from pancreatic cancer a couple of years ago, I knew right away I wanted to become one myself as a way to honor her memory. My goal within the next ten years is to be able to establish an endowed memorial scholarship in her name at her old nursing school. She was the only one in her family that got to go to college. And I know it mustn't have been easy for her as a single working mother (especially when she was a full-time working nursing student). I think this scholarship will be a beautiful way to remember her....