Marriage Question..

[cali510]

I also think he is being unreasonable. My husband had a fatal heart attack. Looking back on it, I realized that he obviously had sleep apnea. I wish he had a CPAP machine to use, maybe he would still be around today.

[SoldierNurse]

My wife can say some woppers sometimes. I try not to dwell on the not so kind words. With that said, I really wish your husband would not have used that word... Divorce, rather than CPAP. Please, encourage him to lose weight for his health, as well as his marriage.

[AmandaWIRN]

Thanks for you input, everyone. We talked about it today after we both calmed down, and he apologized for using the "D" word, and said that's the last thing he wants... he agreed to start a diet/exercise program with me, and if he hasn't lost enough weight to alleviate the snoring in a couple months, he said he will try the cpap again.